Rules of Engagement

If you're interested in a date, all I ask is that you follow these basic rules of common sense and good manners. Kindly familiarise yourself with my boundaries. If you can’t play by my rules, you don’t get to play at all!

  • Your privacy matters to me & all screening details are for my eyes only, and deleted upon verification.

    Clients of high calibre will see my screening process as an assurance of my professionalism, and not an inconvenience. If you don't want to send me your information then please do not contact me.

    Accepted forms: LinkedIn, ID, employment verification, among several other options. If I feel there’s not enough shared, I reserve the right to ask for more information or just decline your request at my discretion.

    You can send me a disappearing message over WhatsApp/Telegram if uploading to a form isn't your cup of tea.

  • I am only available for outcalls to reputable, luxurious hotels. I do not maintain a permanent incall. I am happy to host you on your preferred dates with your reimbursement, ranging from $250 for a reputable dayuse to $1000+ for a hotel suite (your call!)

    I may host occasionally at my own expense and scheduling convenience (max 3-4 times a year). Only screened people who subscribe to my updates will get access to exact hosting dates.

  • Whenever possible, 2 days to a week’s notice is preferred, including time for the deposit to clear. I do understand the urge for an instant fix, my go-to late night NYC pizza guy is familiar.

    Same-day dates in Singapore are nearly impossible due to my schedules and balancing my career. If I can accommodate it, there will be a rush fee enforced, starting from $1000.

    While on tour, I reserve the right to add on a rush premium if necessary.

  • Deposits are a must to confirm all dates, even if we have met before.

    • Singapore / touring - 20-25% of total, in SGD or USD.

    • FMTY - 50% + travel expenses

    • Accepted deposit methods will be discussed, though please note that crypto payments come at a surcharge of 10% for gas fees.

    A deposit allows me to confidently decline other plans and secure your time. My trusted regulars have no issue sending me the whole prepayment ahead of time as well when convenient, though this is never expected. Deposits must be sent within 24h of confirming details. The rest of the payment must be sorted out at the beginning of our date, handed to me discreetly.

  • I understand that life happens, and it can affect our date.

    • Deposits can be transferred to a future scheduled date (within reasonable time frames) if cancelled with at least 48 hours’ notice, after deducting any non-refundable costs.

    • If you decide to cut the date short for any reason - the full rate still applies (e.g. booked 5h but have to leave after 1-2h).

    • Deposits taken for tours / hosting will strictly not be refundable due to incurred costs.

    • Deposits sent in the form of gift cards are strictly non-refundable.

    • Last minute cancellations involve a 100% cancellation fee, failure to pay the cancellation fee will result in a blacklist.

    • If I've taken a deposit, and I have to cancel (even after offering alternative dates) I will of course return it in full immediately.

    • If I cancel due to unsafe, pushy, disrespectful behaviour, the booking and/or communication will end immediately with no refunds.

  • Please note that the various actions below are chargeable offences in Singapore, which I will pursue to the fullest extent:

    • Paying in counterfeit money

    • Stealthing

    • Outrage of modesty

    • Rape

    • Assault

    • Unconsented filming and photography

    • Exhibiting behaviour that is threatening to my personal safety

    • Impersonation of a civil servant

  • Busy and successful gentlemen tend to prefer using the booking form on my website to get in touch because it’s the most time-efficient way for both of us to collect the basic information needed to move forward with scheduling a date.

    For legal reasons, please understand that explicit details cannot be discussed until screening is done and a deposit is in place.

    To prevent wasting my time and yours, please only reach out when you’re ready to send a deposit within 24h.

    Telegram/WhatsApp is provided for messaging convenience, but respectful texting etiquette is expected. Non-consensually deleting entire text conversations for both parties will result in an immediate and permanent block + addition to my shit list.

  • I meet individuals from all walks of life, regardless of ethnicity, political views, religion, gender, marital status, sexual orientation, or appearance. If you have physical disabilities requiring special accessibility accommodations, please include that in your initial inquiry.

    However, I will discriminate against you if you exhibit at least one of the following traits:

    • Underage

    • Illiterate

    • Rude

    • Pushy (Please do not embarrass yourself by negotiating my rates or hinting that they’re too high for your usual tastes)

    • Lacking common sense and/or critical thinking

    • Poor hygiene (can confirm that the first hole you penetrate is my nostril)

    • Stingy

  • I only want to see people who are eager to have a mutually fun time, with mutual respect being the foundations of our relationship.

    • The compensation for my time and companionship are not subject to negotiation. Any form of haggling is a massive turn-off and dealbreaker.

    • A lady should never have to say “No, I don’t enjoy that” to anything more than once.

    • I also do not see anyone "off the clock", so please do not ask.

    • Everything we share with each-other including personal contact information, private conversations, and intimate interactions must be kept between ourselves. Please do not divulge anything about me that you would not appreciate if I did the same.

    • I’m mostly an open book, but please do not push further if I decline to answer any questions for any reason.

    • I’ve been told that it is a shame I do not show my face as it is one of my best features - However, I have no plans to be face out. Do not ask for selfies or more photos, such attempts will be receive an instant block.​

    • Outfit requests are acceptable - however please do not cross into micromanagement.

  • We both have personal lives, careers, families and friends. Naturally, privacy will always be upheld. Should we ever meet in a social setting, please treat me like you would a stranger you just happened to lock eyes with.

  • If you would like to use me as a reference, please reach out to get my permission. We must have seen each other within the past 6 months. I would also require a gift or tip worth $150 sent to me prior to writing a reference for you. Please note that this is an admin fee for the time taken to vouch for you, and time is money after all.

    Fellow companions: Please reach out via email and send a separate DM. I would also appreciate it if you remind clients to check my reference policy before reaching out!

  • In order to circumvent the risks of touring to see lovers and friends in other countries, my exact travel dates are only ever divulged to people who have passed screening and sent deposits. All tour dates publicly visible are an estimate.

    On tour, I only host in impeccable 4-5 star luxury hotels. I will also only reveal the exact location closer to our date.

    I would be interested in visiting these places more often: Hong Kong, London, select cities in India, Dubai, Tokyo.

    Please subscribe and pre-screen with the cities/countries that you're most interested in seeing me in, and I will personally reach out and maintain private contact with you.