Once you are ready to get in touch, just treat this like any other dating scenario between adults and be your respectful, gentlemanly self. We should be able to confirm a date with a deposit within 5-6 messages.

I'm a Type A person who values efficiency, sincerity, and enjoys reciprocating in kind. My personal record in confirming a date was 10 minutes, and 20 minutes for an international travel date. Don't be shocked if you hear back from me super quickly if I like what I receive from you :)

Clients of high calibre will see my screening process as an assurance of my professionalism, and not an inconvenience. (In fact, most scammers/law enforcement will deliberately negate screening to widen their net of targets.)

I will not meet anyone anonymously. Please provide information that can put me at ease before we meet. I screen everyone for safety and compatibility, no exceptions. The more comfortable I am, the more enjoyable the experience will be for both of us! If I feel what is provided by you is insufficient, I may ask for more information.

Examples of what I can ask for: LinkedIn, ID, employment verification, among several other options.

We are all adults exercising free will here. If what I ask for is too much for you, we may simply be incompatible.

Deposits are a must to confirm all dates.

• Singapore, on tour, or arranging FMTY — 30-50% of the total, with any additional relevant expenses incurred.

• Accepted deposit methods will be discussed, and crypto is welcomed.

A deposit allows me to confidently decline other plans and secure your time. My trusted regulars have no issue sending me the whole prepayment ahead of time as well when convenient, though this is never expected. You will be soft booked for 24h while a deposit is pending. Your slot will be released if the 24h deadline is not met.

The rest of the payment must be sorted out at the beginning of our date, handed to me discreetly.

All cancellations not initiated by me are subject to loss of deposit. Deposits can be transferred towards future dates on a strictly case-to-case basis. Disrespectful pushback against my policies will bar you from any future dates with me, which is ultimately your loss.

Protocol:

• 96 hours notice - Slap on the wrist in the form of a 100% prepayment requirement for future dates.

• 72 hours or less - 25% cancellation fee

• 48 hours or less - 50% cancellation fee

• 24 hours or less - 100% cancellation fee

• When I am on tour or hosting in another city, cancellations with less than 72h notice could require up to a 100% cancellation fee.

I take pride in having built an excellent reputation over several years and providing an exceptional experience. This has resulted in many people often planning for and securing our next date before our current one ends (early bird definitely catches the worm).

There is very little reason for me to turn away a decent enquirer beyond a lack of availability from my end. I will always do my best to accommodate but your best bet is to enquire as early as possible.

Anywhere from 2 days to a week in advance is standard, 2 weeks’ notice is ideal (I have even accepted 9 months in advance) to avoid disappointment.

Same-Day & Late Notice (Singapore only)

If I'm able to accommodate your request with less than 24h notice, a rush fee will be added.

12-24h notice: +$500

Less than 12h notice: +$800