The finer logistics + policies

Ready to meet? Me too! But first, some rules…

  • Once you are ready to get in touch, just treat this like any other dating scenario between adults and be your respectful, gentlemanly self. We should be able to confirm a date with a deposit within 5-6 messages.

    I'm a Type A person who values efficiency, sincerity, and enjoys reciprocating in kind. My personal record in confirming a date was 10 minutes, and 20 minutes for an international travel date. Don't be shocked if you hear back from me super quickly if I like what I receive from you :)

  • Clients of high calibre will see my screening process as an assurance of my professionalism, and not an inconvenience. (In fact, most scammers/law enforcement will deliberately negate screening to widen their net of targets.)

    I will not meet anyone anonymously. Please provide information that can put me at ease before we meet. I screen everyone for safety and compatibility, no exceptions. The more comfortable I am, the more enjoyable the experience will be for both of us! If I feel what is provided by you is insufficient, I may ask for more information.

    Examples of what I can ask for: LinkedIn, ID, employment verification, among several other options.

    We are all adults exercising free will here. If what I ask for is too much for you, we may simply be incompatible.

  • Deposits are a must to confirm all dates.

    • Singapore - A minimum of 30% of the total, in SGD or USD.

    • Touring - A minimum of 40% of the total.

    • FMTY - 50% + travel expenses

    • Accepted deposit methods will be discussed, and crypto is welcomed.

    A deposit allows me to confidently decline other plans and secure your time. My trusted regulars have no issue sending me the whole prepayment ahead of time as well when convenient, though this is never expected. You will be soft booked for 24h while a deposit is pending. Your slot will be released if the 24h deadline is not met.

    The rest of the payment must be sorted out at the beginning of our date, handed to me discreetly.

  • All cancellations that are not initiated by me are strictly non-refundable, but can instead be transferred to future dates (case-by-case basis).

    • > 48 hours: Deposit can be transferred to a rescheduled date.

    • < 48 hours: Deposit is forfeited as a cancellation fee, a rescheduled date requires an additional deposit.

    • <24 hours: 50-100% of my fee must be paid as the cancellation fee.

    • Same-day cancellations involve a 100% cancellation fee, failure to pay the cancellation fee will result in a blacklist.

  • I take pride in having built an excellent reputation over several years and providing an exceptional experience. This has resulted in many people often planning for and securing our next date before our current one ends (early bird definitely catches the worm).

    There is very little reason for me to turn away a decent enquirer beyond a lack of availability from my end. I will always do my best to accommodate but your best bet is to enquire as early as possible.

    Anywhere from 2 days to a week in advance is standard, 2 weeks’ notice is ideal (I have even accepted 9 months in advance) to avoid disappointment.

    Same-Day & Late Notice (Singapore only)

    If I'm able to accommodate your request with less than 24h notice, a rush fee will be added.

    12-24h notice: +$500

    Less than 12h notice: +$1000

    • Please note that I won’t guarantee all activities requested. This is entirely dependent on hygiene, mutual comfort, and safety. I take my health extremely seriously and so should you.

    • A lady should never have to say “no, I don’t enjoy that.” more than once. Repeated pushing of any boundaries set will result in the immediate termination of the date with no refunds.

    • Anything that is illegal will be reported to the authorities, which I will pursue to the fullest extent for any damages.

  • I don’t mandate X hours of sleep, alone time for working out or getting ready, or managing replies on my phone. I also don’t mandate a particular split of private and public time, only going with what feels fun, mutually comfortable, natural, and unrushed. This isn’t a hostage situation after all.

    • What I enjoy: cuddling, 7h of uninterrupted sleep, morning sex, and breakfast in bed.

    To me, the above things that are simple common sense if you’re a gentleman who knows that my most relaxed and well-rested self is also my horniest and most cheerful self.

  • My wardrobe is extensive, from very sexy to sweet to conservative, but on public dates, I prefer to wear uncomplicated designer pieces that enhance my elegant contours. My default style is classy, feminine, and elegant. I will always be dressed to impress (befitting dress codes) but won’t ever raise eyebrows.

    If there is something you must see me in (and I love dressing up in something that someone has picked out for me), let’s discuss you getting it for me!

    Reasonable outfit requests are happily accommodated - however, I do not tolerate micromanagement.

  • In a word: No. Aside from navigating legalities, this is not a takeaway restaurant, so I don’t publish a check-list or menu of activities for you to pick from. I’d like to meet people who are adept enough to read between the lines based on the descriptions I’ve provided.

    I’m extremely kink friendly and always curious about new avenues of sexuality, however, the onus is on you to communicate your desires. I welcome you to be crystal clear in what you’re after. I’m not a mind reader or oracle. If I were, I’d engage in insider trading.

  • Life is hard when you have deliberately pixelated features to protect privacy against AI and facial recognition, instead of a normal human face :(

    Here you go!

    Did I mention that one of my pet peeves is people with no common sense? Seems like now is an appropriate time to bring that up :)

  • They’re usually smart, inquisitive people who care deeply about authentic connection.

    They’re often driven and ambitious, and have perhaps made significant sacrifices (especially towards themselves) to reach their current success. Regardless of background and socioeconomic status, they probably have excellent taste in women ;)

    I’m an equal opportunity dater except when it comes to poor manners/lack of integrity. I meet individuals from all walks of life, regardless of ethnicity, political views, religion, gender, marital status, sexual orientation, or appearance.

  • If you would like to use me as a reference, please reach out to get my permission. We must have seen each other within the past 6 months. I would also require a gift or tip worth $150 sent to me prior to writing a reference for you. Please note that this is an admin fee for the time taken to vouch for you, and time is money after all.

    Fellow companions: Please reach out via email and send a separate DM. I would also appreciate it if you remind clients to check my reference policy before reaching out!

  • If you find my prices too steep, I highly suggest scrolling through LinkedIn.